Do you get turned on by having a gag in your mouth or do you find it appealing to see someone else gagged? If the answer is yes you might have a gag fetish
But is it weird or normal to have a fetish for gags? We’ve done some research on this topic to find out how common or uncommon it is to have a gag fetish. Read on to find out what we learned about this kink!
The BDSM Fantasy Is The Most Common Fetish
Yes, you heard that right! According to multiple studies carried out with thousands of people worldwide, scientists have found fantasies about BDSM to be the most common fetish in both men and women.
In 2015 the rising popularity of the Fifty Shades of Grey book trilogy really sparked an interest in BDSM for a lot of women and men all over the globe, boosting the overall interest and curiosity to experiment with BDSM in the bedroom.
BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Submission, and Masochism – and since gags play an important role in all of the four aspects of BDSM, it is fair to say that your gag fetish is an extremely normal kink to have!
Whether you like gagging someone else or being the one gagged yourself, it is a perfectly normal thing to enjoy. Practicing BDSM on a regular basis has also been proven to be a great way to reduce anxiety and stress.
Besides finding the BDSM fantasy to be the most common fetish, researchers also found the following kinks to top the lists as the most normal sexual fantasies:
- Foot fetish
- Financial domination
Your secret fantasies may not be as uncommon and weird as you think they are!
Understanding The Gag Fetish
One of the characteristics of having a gag fetish is the need of having the gag made to perfection – and by that, we mean the aesthetics and effectiveness of the gag combined.
A gag is not just a gag and especially not if it doesn’t do its job to keep someone quiet.
Perhaps you’ve already noticed just how bad some kidnapped celebrities playing the role of a damsel in distress in movies are gagged, telling yourself “that one piece of duct tape on her mouth would not keep someone quiet in real life!”
For a gag fetishist, it is equally important for the gag to look good and to work wonders in silencing the person at the same time. To achieve effectiveness, he or she would want the person’s mouth completely stuffed with a piece of fabric, for example with socks or panties, before taping their mouth shut.
Whether you’re on the giving or receiving end of the gag, a person with a gag fetish would go all-in on sophistication in order to create the best, most beautiful, and most powerful gag.
The fact that many gag fetishists dislike Hollywood’s way of showing poorly gagged celebrities is the reason why many often go their own ways and joins bondage websites that understand their needs their sexual needs.
Online Communities For BDSM And Lovers Of Gags
No matter what kind of sexual stuff you’re into, everybody wants to feel included and understood. Online communities such as FetLife are a brilliant way to put yourself and your kinky side out there no matter what your fetishes are.
If you don’t know what FetLife is, it is basically Facebook for millions of people with fetishes, and it is totally free to join. It is a completely free social media platform for ‘kinksters’ (the word they use for kinky people) and you’d be surprised to see the number of fetishes people from all over the world are into!
You can even remain anonymous without showing your face on your profile if you’re a bit shy and just want to lurk around to see what’s going on. FetLife also allows you to join groups and network with like-minded people with similar interests.
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